chapter 1: Freud’s idea of being able to recall memories at the right time is something I completely agree with. Given the right time I know I always have old memories that just pop up in my mind. However the only part of this idea I disagree with is that we remember everything, even from when we are very young children. I believe the only part of our childhood we remember are when we are old enough to feel pain and recognize it, plus many of our memories we have as children come from looking at pictures and filling in the holes of a memory with our imagination.
chapter 2:his thoughts on happiness, and that we cannot reach complete happiness are something I find a little depressing to believe. I don’t think that happiness can last forever but even if you reach complete and full happiness for just a few seconds it would disprove his theory. His thoughts on where displeasure come from do however make sense and it is very true that we tend to avoid this feelings that we get from these places, or we try to redirect those feelings.
chapter 3: Society provides security and we thought it would get us away form suffering only to realize it causes us more. Freud uses this as a base for chapter 3 and it does make sense. It corresponds with chapter 2 on the idea that displeasure comes from the body, society and other men. But to me it seems logical to live in a society even if it does cause suffering, if we never experience it we will never come to appreciate happiness. Living in isolation would not solve any displeasure’s that society could bring us but in fact only make us crave being social even more.
chapter 4: His ideas on how love and civilizations are something that are just dare I say crazy. I completely disagree that women in
particular hold their children in from the danger of falling in love and being out in society. Families don’t hold one another back they are meant for a person to have a support system and unconditional love no matter what. Families may cause pain but because they are family that pain only last for so long.